Sunday, July 26, 2009

LG crystal Phone !!!
I love the design .. =)
haha cool! siong also like this phone, so the both of us tot of getting the same fone!!! LOL
i think PS also like tt phone.. maybe we all can jus get the same phone!!! HAHA

Went out on FRI afternoon, First was to chinatown to collect some stuffs and then meet siong to accompany her to do some shopping for clothes since she needed them for he
r coming admin job on Mon... anyway i met her late tt dae, by the tym i reached she had already done all her shopping! ha, sort of lah, cos she onli like went to one particular shop and buy 3 top and one pant (i guess) all at one go...

Went out Again on SAT evening with 3 of my besties; Ps, siong and leen.. heh, we went to ajisen for our dinner, I had curry ramen, yea it was nice but i think somehow i got choke by the curry and it was like burning hot in my throat(ai yoo)... xp i didn't order the set meal, jus ordered the ramen and share a side dish(dumpling) with ps. (ps says everytym got dumpling i will sure order de... lol have meh? maybe i jus happen to order when u are dere. haha)CURRY RAMEN!

DUMPLING (picS; credits to PS HA)
well, after dinner we went to orhard central and the newly opened ION - all branded things i sld say... there is where i saw the crystal phone... must start saving money for tt !!
after that, went to upper serangoon to meet
my ex-cvss classmates dere , our meeting place was one of the pub there (surprisingly there is a pub dere Lol..) As usual, i didn't drink ha, only ordered a mocktail (honey, milk and Orange juice) quite nice tho... anyway the pub closes at 2 AM so we left and went to mac instead. we walk like almost 1 hr before reachin kovan 24-hr Mac, it was tiring but I had fun chatting all the way dere... we stayed dere till 6 plus in the morning, (we chat all the way lol of cos i yawn many tyms haha) It was great to spend tym with them jus to gather and chat, really enjoyed it.






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Thursday, July 16, 2009

Just happened to come across this article

MARRIAGE


When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her
hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let
her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me
softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away
the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which
stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who
had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing
something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just
did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't
want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before th e divorce.
She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal
a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked
me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her
out of our bedroom to the front door every morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... She laughed
loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce
intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the si tting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that
I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her
life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of
intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a
few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness
in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry
mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I
held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without
locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do
you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then
slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers
for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and w rote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. Her heart had finally broke down...



The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah..blah.
These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!


I believe some of you may have came across this article before.

Along our journey, the weariness and monotony of life takes its toll on us, such that we tend to overlook seemingly mundane matters, taking advantage of our current situation and circumstances.

In anything we do, have the conviction to be right here right now, lest our thoughts wander to the fearful future and the painful past...


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Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Finally, MST and CSW test is over.

After mst, here comes all the presentations (awaiting to be done)
1)
Ms dorothy's presentation (individual) - Case studies
2)
Ms dorothy's presentation (grp) -Introduction to Myopia
3) Ms Dawn's presentation - Post Surgical Fittings
4) GEMS's Presentation - video to be done
5) Ms lek's presentation - sh it ! unsure of the tittle...

(alamak still got clinic on every mon & tues lor! Need to wear formal so ma fan!)
-.- ''', zZzZZzzZzZ



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